Well, our baby boy and baby girl have spent 34 weeks in utero now. Had a check-up this week which Ben was able to join me for. Dr. Smith told us that we've reached a great milestone-- at 34 weeks most twins would be born quite healthy, able to breathe and feed on their own. He also said that they could arrive any time now, or be quite content to stay put for another month! Last week I was feeling overly-pregnant and would have guessed that their arrival was imminent, but this week I have much more energy and feel like it will still be a while. I'm feeling pretty good overall, though uncomfortable, of course. I have the same ever-present Braxton-Hicks contractions that I had when I was pregnant with Henrik. My doctor initially told me to call him regarding these if I had more that 4 in an hour, but he has increased the "alert number" to 9-10 now, after I called him at 11pm one night... :)
We've got crib #2, chest of drawers #2 and car seat #3 all ready to go, with lots of other around-the-house prep going on as well. We are pretty excited for the little ones to arrive!
This isn't pregnancy-related, but it is kid-related!
Henrik is really developing by leaps and bounds, especially his language. It is pretty fun to talk and play with him. He was healthy at his 2-year-old check-up, measuring tall for his age and a bit skinny. This I already knew, since 24-mo pants fall off of him, but the 18-mo pants are an inch too short.
I must admit that a part of me is a little sad as I anticipate dividing my time among him and the new babies. I know, though, that there is more than enough love to go around, so we'll have to make up in quality what lacks in quantity during these busy early years.
Fall has arrived in the cove, and we're planning to make the most of it! Trips to the Apple Barn and lots of playtime outdoors!
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Kids' Consignment Sale
Well, I'm a convert.
Shopping garage sales can be pretty time-consuming, especially if you have to take your kid(s) in and out of their car seat at each stop. And you can devote a lot of days, okay, years, searching for particular items with no success.
I will probably still garage-sale for enjoyment now and again, but for real shopping, I've converted to a consignment sale goer.
Yesterday I went to the Jack and Jill Kid's Sale in Chatty. It was held in an old Office Depot building, so think HUGE, and filled front to back with everything kid-related: Toys, highchairs, car seats, bottles, cribs, mattresses, bedding, blankets, clothing, more clothing, a lot more clothing, books, shoes, bwah!
The company that runs the sale inspects each item to be complete, in good condition and clean, so the junk is already weeded out for you. And there are a handful of these sales in our area each fall and spring, so I don't have to buy for kids' sizing a year or more in advance as with garage sales. There will always be a consignment sale just in time for the next season. That can save us some serious storage space.
And the best part. Get this-- on the last day of the sale, most things drop to 50% off the original consignment price. Yesterday was just that day, so the consignment sale price became the garage-sale price.
Here's what I scored for $38:
3 cute girl flannel blankets
7 long-sleeve, brand-new white onesies
Gap winter overalls for our girl
Children's Place girl's long-sleeve onesie
boys' wool striped sweater
white newborn sleeper
duck halloween costume for Henrik (Can't wait. He loves ducks.)
4 girl knit pants
2 long-sleeve striped shirts
girl sweater and pants set
2 fruit-feeder cup thingies
baby food mill
4 bassinet sheets
potty chair
small portable potty seat
bottle warmer
Circo crib skirt (brand-new in pkg)
changing table cover
And I drove to one place, on one day. So not stressful. So much fun. There is another this weekend... and it is the MOMS OF MULTIPLES SALE! Hoping for some good gear for the twinsies... :)
Shopping garage sales can be pretty time-consuming, especially if you have to take your kid(s) in and out of their car seat at each stop. And you can devote a lot of days, okay, years, searching for particular items with no success.
I will probably still garage-sale for enjoyment now and again, but for real shopping, I've converted to a consignment sale goer.
Yesterday I went to the Jack and Jill Kid's Sale in Chatty. It was held in an old Office Depot building, so think HUGE, and filled front to back with everything kid-related: Toys, highchairs, car seats, bottles, cribs, mattresses, bedding, blankets, clothing, more clothing, a lot more clothing, books, shoes, bwah!
The company that runs the sale inspects each item to be complete, in good condition and clean, so the junk is already weeded out for you. And there are a handful of these sales in our area each fall and spring, so I don't have to buy for kids' sizing a year or more in advance as with garage sales. There will always be a consignment sale just in time for the next season. That can save us some serious storage space.
And the best part. Get this-- on the last day of the sale, most things drop to 50% off the original consignment price. Yesterday was just that day, so the consignment sale price became the garage-sale price.
Here's what I scored for $38:
3 cute girl flannel blankets
7 long-sleeve, brand-new white onesies
Gap winter overalls for our girl
Children's Place girl's long-sleeve onesie
boys' wool striped sweater
white newborn sleeper
duck halloween costume for Henrik (Can't wait. He loves ducks.)
4 girl knit pants
2 long-sleeve striped shirts
girl sweater and pants set
2 fruit-feeder cup thingies
baby food mill
4 bassinet sheets
potty chair
small portable potty seat
bottle warmer
Circo crib skirt (brand-new in pkg)
changing table cover
And I drove to one place, on one day. So not stressful. So much fun. There is another this weekend... and it is the MOMS OF MULTIPLES SALE! Hoping for some good gear for the twinsies... :)
Saturday, September 4, 2010
August Pics
This picture was taken solely because Henrik's cuteness is sometimes overwhelming!
It's hat day every day at our house.
Muddy bottom.
Coloring is a very serious matter.
Who doesn't love bubbles?Friday, August 6, 2010
It seems that I update the blog best when I come to realized that I really need to update the blog. Perfect.
Summer has been hot and dry (ok, somehow it's always super humid, but we're also experiencing drought for like the everyeth summer in a row since we've lived here).
We've had lots of company! The Norquists of Rhode Island, Ashlee, my 'rents, all in June. We spent a chunk of time up north in July, and since then it has been a blur of Ben traveling off and on. This has all made for a summer that has felt extremely short.
Ben was able to spend a few days here, as well as a week in Italy debriefing with Bryan's missions interns. It's a tough job, but somebody's got to do it.
I've been purposefully ignoring my garden. The cooler times of day = a gazillion bug bites = sleep trouble, which is so not worth fresh tomatoes. That's how I feel about it. You can't even really see the soil anymore for how overgrown it is with weeds (and herbs. Love the herbs). As I had sort of resigned myself to not having a garden next year anyway, I think its spring 0f 2012 before I return to cultivation.
Henrik is loving summer. Pool time, park time, coloring, movies while mom makes dinner... It really is the good life. Oh, and LOTS of blueberries. Henrik is talking more all of the time, to the delight of pretty much everyone who hears his sweet voice. Really.
Babies #2 & #3 seem to be doing well. Another check-up and u/s in about two weeks, then on to every week or every other week appointments (depending on this next u/s) with an u/s about every two weeks. I also just joined the Chattanooga Area Moms of Multiples Club and have my first meeting this coming week. I'm excited to meet these ladies-- browsing their website and seeing the support the group offers was really encouraging back when I was feeling a bit panicked those first days after we found out about the twins. By the way, for anyone who hasn't heard yet... we have a boy and a girl on the way! We're very excited to welcome these little ones in late October/early November.
Soon the Bryan students will begin arriving in town. We're excited for a new school year, and the rhythm that participating in the college year gives our family life.
Someday I'll post pics.
Summer has been hot and dry (ok, somehow it's always super humid, but we're also experiencing drought for like the everyeth summer in a row since we've lived here).
We've had lots of company! The Norquists of Rhode Island, Ashlee, my 'rents, all in June. We spent a chunk of time up north in July, and since then it has been a blur of Ben traveling off and on. This has all made for a summer that has felt extremely short.
Ben was able to spend a few days here, as well as a week in Italy debriefing with Bryan's missions interns. It's a tough job, but somebody's got to do it.
I've been purposefully ignoring my garden. The cooler times of day = a gazillion bug bites = sleep trouble, which is so not worth fresh tomatoes. That's how I feel about it. You can't even really see the soil anymore for how overgrown it is with weeds (and herbs. Love the herbs). As I had sort of resigned myself to not having a garden next year anyway, I think its spring 0f 2012 before I return to cultivation.
Henrik is loving summer. Pool time, park time, coloring, movies while mom makes dinner... It really is the good life. Oh, and LOTS of blueberries. Henrik is talking more all of the time, to the delight of pretty much everyone who hears his sweet voice. Really.
Babies #2 & #3 seem to be doing well. Another check-up and u/s in about two weeks, then on to every week or every other week appointments (depending on this next u/s) with an u/s about every two weeks. I also just joined the Chattanooga Area Moms of Multiples Club and have my first meeting this coming week. I'm excited to meet these ladies-- browsing their website and seeing the support the group offers was really encouraging back when I was feeling a bit panicked those first days after we found out about the twins. By the way, for anyone who hasn't heard yet... we have a boy and a girl on the way! We're very excited to welcome these little ones in late October/early November.
Soon the Bryan students will begin arriving in town. We're excited for a new school year, and the rhythm that participating in the college year gives our family life.
Someday I'll post pics.
Friday, July 30, 2010
Preschool Activity Swap
My friend Ginger just organized an exchange of home-made activities aimed at 3-4 year olds, using the ideas from the ebook Preschool Activities in a Bag, available at activitybags.com.
Here's how it worked: I made 10 sets of 3 puzzles, brought them to Ginger's house (I missed out on the party aspect of the exchange because Ben was out-of-town) and the next day picked up my assortment of 10 different activities, each prepared by a different participant.
The bags will be easy to store, and each activity is reusable, substantial, and adaptable to different levels of development. In another year or so, these will be really fun for Henrik to play with.
This would be a great activity for a group of friends, church moms or homeschool moms to do together. It was satisfying to collect our bags of goodies and to think of how helpful the work I did will be for other busy moms.
Here's how it worked: I made 10 sets of 3 puzzles, brought them to Ginger's house (I missed out on the party aspect of the exchange because Ben was out-of-town) and the next day picked up my assortment of 10 different activities, each prepared by a different participant.
The bags will be easy to store, and each activity is reusable, substantial, and adaptable to different levels of development. In another year or so, these will be really fun for Henrik to play with.
This would be a great activity for a group of friends, church moms or homeschool moms to do together. It was satisfying to collect our bags of goodies and to think of how helpful the work I did will be for other busy moms.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Little Bear
Just scrolled down through our blog to discover a serious lack of photos of Henrik!!!
He's growin' up! Recently we counted 50+ words that he is using regularly. The more that he uses a word the more slurred it becomes, as though he is creating his own slang or something. At this point I think I'm the only one that can hear the difference between "milk" and "book" for example. Along the same lines, "but" can mean belly button or blanket. But surely not "butt." Just so you know. Anyway. Here he is:
From Easter (Yep. That was a while back!) Also, if you're interested, Ben preached a short homily on Easter Sunday at our church. Here's the link. His homily is near the end of the service, on "Hope in Eternal Life."
More from Easter. Henrik and his friend Emmalyn. Yes, Henrik was eating dirt.
Building a bench on our back deck. Lovin' the hair.
Hiking out to Buzzard's Point (which is now closed off. Sad). I loove this picture of my two guys!
Washing the car. Henrik REALLY loves squirting the hose. REALLY.
Playing with trains. He loves playing "Mus" (Thomas) almost as much as eating blueberries (I spared you those pics).
Hiking in the Pocket Wilderness Area just this weekend.
He's growin' up! Recently we counted 50+ words that he is using regularly. The more that he uses a word the more slurred it becomes, as though he is creating his own slang or something. At this point I think I'm the only one that can hear the difference between "milk" and "book" for example. Along the same lines, "but" can mean belly button or blanket. But surely not "butt." Just so you know. Anyway. Here he is:
From Easter (Yep. That was a while back!) Also, if you're interested, Ben preached a short homily on Easter Sunday at our church. Here's the link. His homily is near the end of the service, on "Hope in Eternal Life."
More from Easter. Henrik and his friend Emmalyn. Yes, Henrik was eating dirt.
Building a bench on our back deck. Lovin' the hair.
Hiking out to Buzzard's Point (which is now closed off. Sad). I loove this picture of my two guys!
Washing the car. Henrik REALLY loves squirting the hose. REALLY.
Playing with trains. He loves playing "Mus" (Thomas) almost as much as eating blueberries (I spared you those pics).
Hiking in the Pocket Wilderness Area just this weekend.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
We Shall Remain
There are a lot of things I'm not really interested in.
Dolphins, manatees, and marine life in general. Military history. Cars. Most sports. Some people (true confession!).
I've never been that interested in Native American history until, well, I guess about 4 years ago, when Ben and I started reading a few books on the history of Minnesota and came across some really riveting accounts of the contact and conflict between White settlers and the Native Peoples of the Dakota territories.
It has been my experience (especially with the people part) that interest and real care develop quite naturally when I dig into the intricacies of a person or topic area. To get to know him, her or it, if you will.
That is my experience with the stories of the people who called this place where I now live home.
It's really easy to be ignorant of those stories. In fact, I've been surprised by how hard it really is to find decent film and print histories about specific Native American peoples or time periods. I tried to put together a unit for one of my classes at RCHS a couple of years ago and couldn't come up with much of anything aid me in teaching about the Cherokee people and the Trail of Tears. And those are not exactly obscure topics!
So. Ben and I are jumping into a PBS series (full episodes may be viewed through the official website) called American Experience: We Shall Remain. The 5-part series follows pivotal events within 300 years of Native history, from the arrival of the Mayflower to Wounded Knee. A few years ago we listened to a book on CD (cannot find the title!) about very early America. That account of the post-Mayflower time period was slightly different than this PBS version, but only in particular details. As is with much of history, a lot is known and a lot is not. Our next episode is about the Trail of Tears, an event we are are especially interested in because it literally took place in our back yard. In some ways, though, I am apprehensive about watching it because I know that gaining knowledge about this event is sure to affect me emotionally and give me a sense of responsibility that I won't know what to do with. Yuck.
But those are poor reasons to remain ignorant. And the stories are indeed an "essential part of American history" and super interesting.
We'll let you know what we learn.
What are you recently interested in? What don't I know about you? What truths/realities burden you?
Dolphins, manatees, and marine life in general. Military history. Cars. Most sports. Some people (true confession!).
I've never been that interested in Native American history until, well, I guess about 4 years ago, when Ben and I started reading a few books on the history of Minnesota and came across some really riveting accounts of the contact and conflict between White settlers and the Native Peoples of the Dakota territories.
It has been my experience (especially with the people part) that interest and real care develop quite naturally when I dig into the intricacies of a person or topic area. To get to know him, her or it, if you will.
That is my experience with the stories of the people who called this place where I now live home.
It's really easy to be ignorant of those stories. In fact, I've been surprised by how hard it really is to find decent film and print histories about specific Native American peoples or time periods. I tried to put together a unit for one of my classes at RCHS a couple of years ago and couldn't come up with much of anything aid me in teaching about the Cherokee people and the Trail of Tears. And those are not exactly obscure topics!
So. Ben and I are jumping into a PBS series (full episodes may be viewed through the official website) called American Experience: We Shall Remain. The 5-part series follows pivotal events within 300 years of Native history, from the arrival of the Mayflower to Wounded Knee. A few years ago we listened to a book on CD (cannot find the title!) about very early America. That account of the post-Mayflower time period was slightly different than this PBS version, but only in particular details. As is with much of history, a lot is known and a lot is not. Our next episode is about the Trail of Tears, an event we are are especially interested in because it literally took place in our back yard. In some ways, though, I am apprehensive about watching it because I know that gaining knowledge about this event is sure to affect me emotionally and give me a sense of responsibility that I won't know what to do with. Yuck.
But those are poor reasons to remain ignorant. And the stories are indeed an "essential part of American history" and super interesting.
We'll let you know what we learn.
What are you recently interested in? What don't I know about you? What truths/realities burden you?
Friday, April 30, 2010
Yep. That means twins.
"Okay, I see two heartbeats and two amniotic sacs." (pause) "You did know that, right?"
Long story short, my first ultrasound was not done by my normal doc, so he assumed that I knew about the TWO BABIES. WHICH I DIDN'T. And I don't really remember a darn thing about the rest of that visit. Except that my heart was racing. Yes, I can say that it was quite a shock when we found this out!
I'm 12 weeks along now, and we've known since about week 6, so I'm past the shock to a pretty constant excitement. I love that our kids will be so close in age, and so, hopefully, in relationship with one another. I can't say that I would have chosen things to be this way (and I'm sure I'll really feel that way when I'm caring for two newborns and a two year old!), but I feel oh so grateful that God has chosen this for us. No matter how or when they arrive, children are a treasure, and we are so happy anticipating such wealth times three!
If you think of it, pray for us. While there are no indications now that there will be any problems or complications with this pregnancy, twin pregnancies do have a very high rate of miscarriage, premature birth, birth defect and even SIDS deaths. I must admit that I've had some pretty disturbing dreams to that effect. Time to stop browsing the internet for twin info, I think.
For those who are curious about the fact that Ben is a twin, that is not likely a factor in our having twins. You see, Ben is an identical twin. It's not known exactly what makes the egg split to create identical twins, but that phenomenon is not considered to be hereditary. And indications are that ours are likely fraternal (though not certain without a DNA test).
We'll keep y'all up to date as the pregnancy progresses. The top pic here is from about a month ago and shows both babies. The lower shows just one of them. Lovin' them already and counting down to the due date, November 9!
Long story short, my first ultrasound was not done by my normal doc, so he assumed that I knew about the TWO BABIES. WHICH I DIDN'T. And I don't really remember a darn thing about the rest of that visit. Except that my heart was racing. Yes, I can say that it was quite a shock when we found this out!
I'm 12 weeks along now, and we've known since about week 6, so I'm past the shock to a pretty constant excitement. I love that our kids will be so close in age, and so, hopefully, in relationship with one another. I can't say that I would have chosen things to be this way (and I'm sure I'll really feel that way when I'm caring for two newborns and a two year old!), but I feel oh so grateful that God has chosen this for us. No matter how or when they arrive, children are a treasure, and we are so happy anticipating such wealth times three!
If you think of it, pray for us. While there are no indications now that there will be any problems or complications with this pregnancy, twin pregnancies do have a very high rate of miscarriage, premature birth, birth defect and even SIDS deaths. I must admit that I've had some pretty disturbing dreams to that effect. Time to stop browsing the internet for twin info, I think.
For those who are curious about the fact that Ben is a twin, that is not likely a factor in our having twins. You see, Ben is an identical twin. It's not known exactly what makes the egg split to create identical twins, but that phenomenon is not considered to be hereditary. And indications are that ours are likely fraternal (though not certain without a DNA test).
We'll keep y'all up to date as the pregnancy progresses. The top pic here is from about a month ago and shows both babies. The lower shows just one of them. Lovin' them already and counting down to the due date, November 9!
Monday, March 15, 2010
Spring Break
This past week we traveled with a group of Bryan students to Nashville to help out an organization there-- Community Servants operating in the Wherry Housing Community of Smyrna, TN.
The basic idea is this: Community Servants works with the Wherry Housing Community's Tenant Cooperative to renovate old rental units. Community Servants has some input into whom the unit is rented to and the cooperative has the additional income from a unit that would otherwise be uninhabitable. It is a win-win-win arrangement. Community Servants is able to minister to particular families practically and spiritually (many are refugees or the homeless) while coordinating newly-remodeled, affordable housing for them, and the cooperative is supported on the financial side. The neighborhood is a safe and clean one because of the personal investment of the tenants in the cooperative and the Community Servants ministry (many of those who have been helped in the past do the helping now). Volunteers within the Wherry community, from the Nashville area and from around the country provide the labor. Our team worked on two units, painting, sealing, cleaning, doing some tiling and flooring work. We met both of the families who will live in the units. Oh, so rewarding!
Henrik wasn't able to participate in the renovating, but he was a great cheerleader/court jester. He did an A+ job sleeping in an unfamiliar, noisy place, too! Good work, kid.
Now all three of us are pretty darn exhausted, plodding into another week. Whew. And that is that.
The basic idea is this: Community Servants works with the Wherry Housing Community's Tenant Cooperative to renovate old rental units. Community Servants has some input into whom the unit is rented to and the cooperative has the additional income from a unit that would otherwise be uninhabitable. It is a win-win-win arrangement. Community Servants is able to minister to particular families practically and spiritually (many are refugees or the homeless) while coordinating newly-remodeled, affordable housing for them, and the cooperative is supported on the financial side. The neighborhood is a safe and clean one because of the personal investment of the tenants in the cooperative and the Community Servants ministry (many of those who have been helped in the past do the helping now). Volunteers within the Wherry community, from the Nashville area and from around the country provide the labor. Our team worked on two units, painting, sealing, cleaning, doing some tiling and flooring work. We met both of the families who will live in the units. Oh, so rewarding!
Henrik wasn't able to participate in the renovating, but he was a great cheerleader/court jester. He did an A+ job sleeping in an unfamiliar, noisy place, too! Good work, kid.
Now all three of us are pretty darn exhausted, plodding into another week. Whew. And that is that.
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Ben's January
Ben has been a busy one, too!
The semester began with the Spiritual Life Conference, with speaker and author Andy Crouch. From his website's bio:
"Andy is the author of Culture Making: Recovering Our Creative Calling, winner of Christianity Today’s 2009 Book Award for Christianity and Culture and named one of the best books of 2008 by Publishers Weekly, Relevant, Outreach and Leadership." He is also a senior editor at Christianity Today and a really, really nice guy.
You can listen to a few of Andy's Bryan presentations here.
I think it was really fun for Ben to have Andy on campus as Andy's writing relates to some of Ben's special loves: art, creativity and the kingdom of God.
Ben has also been busy recording a few interviews with Bryan chapel guests. The show is a production of the college which airs on the Christian radio station here in Chattanooga. Some segments have not aired yet, so those aren't posted, but here are two that are available:
"Being the Protagonist in Your Story"
Interview with Gary Stratton October 24, 2009
MLK Day Project Interview with Danielle Rebman January 16, 2010
It is a source of happiness for Ben to bring challenging speakers to campus, and we hope that their good work (and Ben's, too) yields good fruit in the lives of the students.
Hope you have fun listening to these!
The semester began with the Spiritual Life Conference, with speaker and author Andy Crouch. From his website's bio:
"Andy is the author of Culture Making: Recovering Our Creative Calling, winner of Christianity Today’s 2009 Book Award for Christianity and Culture and named one of the best books of 2008 by Publishers Weekly, Relevant, Outreach and Leadership." He is also a senior editor at Christianity Today and a really, really nice guy.
You can listen to a few of Andy's Bryan presentations here.
I think it was really fun for Ben to have Andy on campus as Andy's writing relates to some of Ben's special loves: art, creativity and the kingdom of God.
Ben has also been busy recording a few interviews with Bryan chapel guests. The show is a production of the college which airs on the Christian radio station here in Chattanooga. Some segments have not aired yet, so those aren't posted, but here are two that are available:
"Being the Protagonist in Your Story"
Interview with Gary Stratton October 24, 2009
MLK Day Project Interview with Danielle Rebman January 16, 2010
It is a source of happiness for Ben to bring challenging speakers to campus, and we hope that their good work (and Ben's, too) yields good fruit in the lives of the students.
Hope you have fun listening to these!
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Henrik's January
Henrik is talking to himself as he falls asleep for his nap. Lately he has been eating A LOT, which must mean he is growing, been pretty independent of his pacifier and started to mimic more of what we say. He doesn't make use of the words he knows all that often, but he'll pull out "da-dee," "baby," "ba" (ball), "seess" (this? please? it's definitly used when he wants something), "buuuh" for peek-a-boo, "ah," "moo," "ooo," and "rahhh" for puppy, cow, owl and lion sounds, respectively. And he is very helpfully signing "please," "all done" and "diaper." It's fun to see him gaining and using language!
Last night as I was folding and putting clothes away he observed that it was really funny to flop clothing onto his head and walk around like that. I tried to get one expressive picture, but got about 50 blurry or super-bright photos of the side of his head instead. Sigh.
Here's something, anyway:
Last night as I was folding and putting clothes away he observed that it was really funny to flop clothing onto his head and walk around like that. I tried to get one expressive picture, but got about 50 blurry or super-bright photos of the side of his head instead. Sigh.
Here's something, anyway:
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